This blog is about hypnosis and other personal development tools. If you are looking for help, I highly recommend Anthony Cox at http://tokyolifecoaching.com/. He offers life coaching, health coaching (personal training and nutrition), and relationship counseling.
There are also many counselors and therapists at Tokyo English Life Line and IMHPJ who offer counseling services in a variety of languages. See Resources at right for links to their sites.